Travis Kendall, died of gunshot
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mountaintophop wrote on Nov 25, 2009 1:06 PM:
Prayers again for Ashley and her family. Thank god she survived this attack to be able to raise her beautiful son.
Theres been way to many crimes of passion in our area recently. Towards women.
Men in general need to learn impulse control towards women. In our society that teaches young men, women are sex objects, and to be degraded and to be controlled, and are not treated as equals unfortunately. If mental illness is a factor, those suffering are even more at risk to be triggered to violence.
Learn from this situation women to protect yourself and assert your right to carry a gun for personal protection. If your safety is an issue. Stay safe.
Theres been way to many crimes of passion in our area recently. Towards women.
Men in general need to learn impulse control towards women. In our society that teaches young men, women are sex objects, and to be degraded and to be controlled, and are not treated as equals unfortunately. If mental illness is a factor, those suffering are even more at risk to be triggered to violence.
Learn from this situation women to protect yourself and assert your right to carry a gun for personal protection. If your safety is an issue. Stay safe.
carefree highway wrote on Nov 24, 2009 7:22 PM:
reedsportmommy: Thank you. I appreciate that. I explained in past posts how the restraining order wasnt beneficial to my family and just caused more terrifying harm than the original reason that put me in jail for five days. Ashley was right in getting a restraining order, but the police and court system failed her in not assessing past and potential harm to her from an unstable individual. They also failed Travis.
One size Restraining Order doesnt fit all.
One size Restraining Order doesnt fit all.
reedsportmommy wrote on Nov 24, 2009 8:22 AM:
I hope Ashley pulls through this horrible tragedy...My prayers are with her parents and her little baby. Also I feel saddened for his family too, this must be hard for them as well.
CarefreeHwy, I apologize if you feel personally attacked. I was responding to some of your posts which I feel were innapropriate..such as calling a woman a pussycat and stating that the system is to blame for most of the issues regarding restraining orders. I hope that we as a society figure out something we can do, to reduce these sorts of crimes. I am happy to hear that the restraining order your wife took out against you, that according to you, you spent 45 days in jail for wasnt for abuse. Thats a relief.
CarefreeHwy, I apologize if you feel personally attacked. I was responding to some of your posts which I feel were innapropriate..such as calling a woman a pussycat and stating that the system is to blame for most of the issues regarding restraining orders. I hope that we as a society figure out something we can do, to reduce these sorts of crimes. I am happy to hear that the restraining order your wife took out against you, that according to you, you spent 45 days in jail for wasnt for abuse. Thats a relief.
carefree highway wrote on Nov 24, 2009 4:44 AM:
reedsportmommy : Do you have anything constructive to add to this article besides attacking me? Probably not, just like the Coquille Pussycat. I didnt have a restraining order related to spousal abuse. DUH I have never abused my spouse.
Eastsider wrote on Nov 23, 2009 1:39 PM:
You still need the restraining order so that you can claim self defense.
QWCS wrote on Nov 23, 2009 11:51 AM:
To SICKNTIRED: I know this about domestic violence: Younger women who fall for older, controlling men, are often looking for a father figure because their own father was not always there for them. My point is, I think this poor girl was not only a victim of domestic violence, but she probably came from a family with issues. There are a LOT of irresponsible parents in this community. I may sound cruel, but I think Ashley's parents (wherever they are) need to be asking themselves some serious questions about how their daughter ended up with this guy, who had known violent past.
1313 wrote on Nov 23, 2009 9:46 AM:
The "only" restraining order is a gun pointed at the restrainee telling him to leave.
A piece of paper will not do it, period.
If this sounds violent, so does getting killed by him.
A piece of paper will not do it, period.
If this sounds violent, so does getting killed by him.
myvoice wrote on Nov 23, 2009 9:20 AM:
As far as the gun, he was a CONVICTED FELON. He became a felon long years ago, before Ashley was involved. He had a NO CONTACT order issued on OCT 15 as a condition of early release, awaiting a court appearance in December for domestic abuse. So, why did Ashley NEED a restraining order also?
Somebody DID drop the ball. Luckily we have God to protect us because the Justice System won't. Ashley was born a fighter, she will make it, I have faith.
Somebody DID drop the ball. Luckily we have God to protect us because the Justice System won't. Ashley was born a fighter, she will make it, I have faith.
myvoice wrote on Nov 23, 2009 9:20 AM:
Where to start.... I told myself I wouldn't get wrapped up in the TRASH TALK, but the TRUTH should be told.
Ashley WAS forced to get a restraining order, they told her she had to or she would not get her son back. Where was her protection? They (Police, DHS) made her feel like she was a bad mother instead of explaining that they had good reason to believe she and Theren were in grave danger. I thank God they did take Theren but what was done for Ashley? And the truth is Theren was taken on Monday not October 15. Ashley would do anything for her family, she is a great mother.
The comments of "where were her parents two years ago".... Have you ever met a sociopath? I have, Travis Kendall. Anyone who actually did know him would know he could really turn on the charm when he wanted to. Her family was right beside her the whole time with threats for their lives too. Where were the police? That's my question.
Ashley WAS forced to get a restraining order, they told her she had to or she would not get her son back. Where was her protection? They (Police, DHS) made her feel like she was a bad mother instead of explaining that they had good reason to believe she and Theren were in grave danger. I thank God they did take Theren but what was done for Ashley? And the truth is Theren was taken on Monday not October 15. Ashley would do anything for her family, she is a great mother.
The comments of "where were her parents two years ago".... Have you ever met a sociopath? I have, Travis Kendall. Anyone who actually did know him would know he could really turn on the charm when he wanted to. Her family was right beside her the whole time with threats for their lives too. Where were the police? That's my question.
loventhecoast wrote on Nov 23, 2009 8:14 AM:
do you people realize that you are just pushing each others buttons and have totally forgotten that a woman was shot in the back? Please - stop hating on each other and remember why these blogs are here. they are not to bash on each other - but to try to come together.
People fall in love and things happen to change those feelings. Unfortunately, this relationship got way out of hand and it is truly sad.
People fall in love and things happen to change those feelings. Unfortunately, this relationship got way out of hand and it is truly sad.
dan milburn wrote on Nov 22, 2009 11:52 AM:
When the cops come and see a man or woman face down with an ax in one hand and a gun in the other and the victim standing there with a smoking shotgun - I dont think the first question will be - was your shotgun in plain sight? You didn't hide it under your coat did you? Because if you did we would have to bust you for concealed weapon. The first thing you learn in a concealed weapon's class is to keep it secret so you wll have the element of surprise on yourself. This is a tactical advantage that works well fro victims whether they have a permit or not. Tell you what legal system, when you make it mandatory for crimnals to get permits before they attack somebody I'll quit laughing at you. Fact is to hell with the permits and rules if you have to protect yourself! Even a caveman had a weapon to defend himself.
reedsportmommy wrote on Nov 22, 2009 8:57 AM:
Coquillian, I expected Carefreehwy's response to be immature and compltley off the issue with no point to it. He seems to blame everyone...women, the justice system, life in general but NEVER himself at all ofcourse. Typical, immature and sad. To his wife that got the restraining order in the first place I hope you get help.
Moonpenny...I am sorry to hear about your situation. I do think your idea of a mandatory "cooling off period" sounds logical. We as a society need to think of something to help reduce these kind of crimes.
Moonpenny...I am sorry to hear about your situation. I do think your idea of a mandatory "cooling off period" sounds logical. We as a society need to think of something to help reduce these kind of crimes.
m00npenny wrote on Nov 21, 2009 3:34 PM:
For Clarification: I am aware of how the court system works. I had a restraining order taken out on my ex husband because he beat me violently. It didnt stop him. I went into hiding for 3 months thanks to friends and co workers. I did not drive myself anywhere, to those around me, I wasnt allowed to. The police told me to "call them" if he violates "again". I didnt own guns at the time, but my friends did. The ex got first hand view of it. He never bothered me again. Law enforcment gives the victim, man or woman, the "FALSE" sense of security when a restraining order is issued, assuming that the recipient is a civil person. If the young man had a violent past, then there should of been some type of safety house where she could of been placed for a few days until he cooled off. Or perhaps a statute that when it is a domestic violence restraining order, that the person being served is confined to their home or the local pokey for 24-48 hour cooling off period.
This, like my own situation, should of NEVER happened.
This, like my own situation, should of NEVER happened.
coquillian wrote on Nov 21, 2009 8:37 AM:
Thanks REEDSPORTMOMMY. You will notice how his next post goes. I wonder if he is a classic woman hate, or just hates anyeone who disagrees with him. Note that in some of his posts to me he puts "Coquillian Pussycat". He just want us to know that he is a man and we are woman. Which, is true, but not relevant. Most restraining orders don't just appear out of the blue. No one is trying to discourage anyone from getting one, just trying to say take some other steps as well to protect yourself.
orecoast007 wrote on Nov 20, 2009 6:48 PM:
I would rather get a concealed weapons permit than get a restraining order... Most people could care less about a restraining order.. PROBLEM SOLVED!!!!
hey its me wrote on Nov 20, 2009 5:57 PM:
Duh? If someone doesn't have a driver's license is that going to stop them from driving?
TIRED OF THE BULL wrote on Nov 20, 2009 2:40 PM:
SO BEFORE YOU CONTINUE TO BASH HIM ASK YOURSELF WAS THERE ANY FORM OF MENTAL ILLNESS THAT NO ONE EVER KNEW ABOUT, OR SOME OTHER ISSUES. I AM IN NO WAY DEFENDING WHAT HE DID BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE TO LIVE IN DOMESTIC ABUSE. BUT HE WAS THAT WAY FOR A REASON. EVERYONE NEEDS TO GIVE IT A REST AND JUST KEEP PRAYING THAT ASHLEY RECOVERS AND IS ABLE TO MOVE ON WITH HER LIFE IN A POSITIVE MANNER. THIS ISN'T DOING HER OR THEIR SON ANY GOOD.
TIRED OF THE BULL wrote on Nov 20, 2009 2:36 PM:
OK THIS IS ALL GETTING OUT OF CONTROL. ALL OF YOU ARE INTITLED TO YOUR OPINIONS OF TRAVIS, ASHLEY THE WHOLE SITUATION. FOR THE ONES THAT CALL HIM A POS DID YOU DO IT TO HIS FACE WHEN HE WAS ALIVE? I THINK NOT. I KNEW TRAVIS FOR MANY YEARS. HE WENT TO SCHOOL WITH ONE OF MY KIDS AND SO DID ASHLEY. HE HAD ANGER ISSUES WHEN HE WAS YOUNG. ALL THE RED FLAGS WERE THERE. HE IS A LOST SOULD THAT SLIPPED THROUGH THE CRACKS. WHY WAS HE NOT GIVEN HELP WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER WHEN THE ISSUES WERE SHOWING UP? PEOPLE LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE NOT JUST LIVE WHAT THEY LEARN.
carefree highway wrote on Nov 20, 2009 2:22 PM:
reedsportmommy:<<<Do you have cooties? Because you sure came out of the woodwork smelling awful bad.
reedsportmommy wrote on Nov 20, 2009 10:03 AM:
CAREFREEHIGHWAY.... I love that you have so much to say about how restraining orders dont work and most the time are unnessacary and that cops spend to much time on family matters CONSIDERING YOU spent 45 days in jail because your wife had one against you. (according to your other post) You seem to be blaming only the system??!! Do you infact take ANY responsibility for the actions YOU took to get your wife to put a restraining order against you in the first place...or are you just another victim of the system?
SICKNTIRED wrote on Nov 19, 2009 7:08 PM:
QWCS~
You are one ignorant person. I only created my account to tell you that you should educate yourself on domestic violence, support systems, and controlling men. I can guarantee you that he was the nicest person in the world when she met him. Pull your head outta your a$$
You are one ignorant person. I only created my account to tell you that you should educate yourself on domestic violence, support systems, and controlling men. I can guarantee you that he was the nicest person in the world when she met him. Pull your head outta your a$$
dannydean wrote on Nov 19, 2009 6:13 PM:
I'M ALSO TIERD OF THE BULL when skum like this is able to walk the streets I knew travis and he should have been locked up and good riddens, we need to think about the damage he has done to ashley and her son and family. my wife works with ashley's mom and they are all praying for her. to bad he didn't take him self first YEARS AGO!
steve farley wrote on Nov 19, 2009 6:11 PM:
To Ashley and family: Remember God answers prayers in his way when we least expect it. God be with you all.
dannygs wrote on Nov 19, 2009 2:25 PM:
QWCS: yes, and why is the sky blue? why is the grass green? If I forget to breathe, will I stop breathing? if a tree falls in the forest and nobody is there, does it make a sound? let's ask some more dumb questions! blaming the victim is ridiculous. shame on you.
DanInOregon wrote on Nov 19, 2009 1:45 PM:
The police cannot protect you or save you. In fact that isn't their primary job in the first place. Their primary job is to investigate crimes after they happen and capture the perpetrator. You want protection? Get a gun and learn how and when to safely use it. Then be prepared to use it if you must.
Jal85 wrote on Nov 19, 2009 1:11 PM:
My prayers go out to this family and their friends. This was a devastating act that has no excuse. I hope this young lady pulls through. A big thank you to CBPD, CBFD, Bay Cities Ambulance personnel, and the people involved from discovery of this young lady to the flight to Portland. Without you guys, the immediate outcome would have been tragic. Hopefully it provides for a fighting chance for her and she can get back to her family.
milldowny wrote on Nov 19, 2009 12:24 PM:
He is now where he deserves to be. What a coward to shot your childs mother in the back. Trucker, I like where your heart was but people like him are non-rehabilitative. He is the 0.01% that can actually pull something like this off. The other 99.99% of us do not have the ability or it does not "compute" and would never even enter our minds. I wish she only could have received help sooner. Shooting himself tells us what kind of mental illness he had. Men that think they need to have complete power over women are cowards. Period!
trucker wrote on Nov 19, 2009 11:32 AM:
Holy moses what a terrible thing. Travis lived next to me about 5 years ago.He was a very angry young man. I tried to help him with his temper but just couldn't get through to him. I hope this young lady makes it. I can't believe that there wasn't some kind of help for him to deal with his anger. Some of you are going to say i'm nuts but I know he was a deeply troubled young man that needed help and ended up hurting everybody that ever gave a hoot for him. Again may God help Ashly and her child to get through this.
The Brutal Truth wrote on Nov 19, 2009 10:53 AM:
What a terrible thing to happen.
I really, really hope she pulls through to a full recovery, and can go on with her life knowing she's safe from this monster.
I really, really hope she pulls through to a full recovery, and can go on with her life knowing she's safe from this monster.
TruthTeller wrote on Nov 19, 2009 10:48 AM:
Just another example of that piece of paper doesn't mean diddly squat. How sad.
reedsportmommy wrote on Nov 19, 2009 9:57 AM:
My thoughts go out to Ashley's family especially her baby, I hope she pulls through.
Mamabug wrote on Nov 19, 2009 9:40 AM:
More likely then not I am sure someone in their semi-right mind who recieves a RO will back off knowing the person who the RO is for means business. Not in all cases does it make someone react like this monster did.
Kodos to the CBPD detectives and officers and to the local agencies, including Chief Dannels. Job well done.
To Ashley and her family, Be strong! Know that many who have never known you are praying for you. All our thoughts and prayers!
Kodos to the CBPD detectives and officers and to the local agencies, including Chief Dannels. Job well done.
To Ashley and her family, Be strong! Know that many who have never known you are praying for you. All our thoughts and prayers!
coquillian wrote on Nov 19, 2009 9:27 AM:
Regarding restraining orders, unless a certain box is checked you CAN still own weapons. And even if that box is checked that you CAN'T there is no authorization by the courts for police to search and take the persons weapons. And even if there was, most people know when a restraining order is coming. They could hide the weapon at a friends house, take someone else's gun, etc. What people forget is that when someone concentrates on a bad act, that is ALL they are thinking of. My heart goes out to Ashley and her family. And about checking the car, maybe he wasn't actually in the car until she unlocked the door? We don't know all of it so please don't say anything that would sound like you are blaming the victim. Even the strongest most alert person is no match for a crazed person with a gun.
Eastsider wrote on Nov 19, 2009 8:40 AM:
Ladies, any woman needing a restraining order against an abusive guy needs to carry a gun and be ready to use it.
Thnxalot wrote on Nov 19, 2009 8:17 AM:
To MY THOUGHTS Where his parents are is irrelevant as he was a 26 year old man completely responsible for his own actions. "Where are the parents?" has become a slogan of meaningless rhetoric that tends to focus blame off of the real offender
1313 wrote on Nov 19, 2009 6:54 AM:
Just my thought, a restraining order does nothing as far as I can see and unless you are going to leave your home and move far away, it is actually dangerous. It makes the man mad as heck and he will do anything to show you it cannot keep him away from you. A piece of paper cannot keep someone away from you, so you should not feel SAFE after you get the restraining order. Be on the lookout at all times and if you have a concealed weapons permit,carry at all times with you, you are not SAFE. If at all possible leave the area because he can get you.
I actually do know this from a past experience.
I actually do know this from a past experience.
for clarification wrote on Nov 19, 2009 4:45 AM:
Moonpenny-You need to know how the judical system works. Someone is arrested and then arraigned. They have to answer to the charges lodged against them. A court date to actually find them guilty is scheduled for a later date. This is to give both the defense & prosecution time to prepare their cases. Until that time people are either held in jail or released with conditions to follow. This is dependent usually on the crime and offenders history.
To everyone else who thinks Restraining Orders are worthless. Whether I agree with you or not doesn't matter. If you don't like the way the system works make efforts to change it. They are the best thing the judical system has at this time. Call your congressman, your governor or anyone else in a position to make changes. We all must wrok within the confines of the system we are given until it gets changes.
To everyone else who thinks Restraining Orders are worthless. Whether I agree with you or not doesn't matter. If you don't like the way the system works make efforts to change it. They are the best thing the judical system has at this time. Call your congressman, your governor or anyone else in a position to make changes. We all must wrok within the confines of the system we are given until it gets changes.
coqwoman wrote on Nov 19, 2009 2:25 AM:
My heart goes out to both families. We're all praying for you Ashley! And props for Coquille's new police chief, as far as I can tell he has done nothing but GOOD for our community....Good job! please hang in there.
My Thoughts wrote on Nov 18, 2009 11:03 PM:
Having a restraining order doesn't really mean you are safe....This is a step you can take to try to make yourself safe. To care free... Restraining Orders are there for your safety and well being.. She apparently JUST got hers. And That is horrible that this happened...I would like to know where are the parents of these little boys who think they are men to even do this to woman to begin with? I have noticed that the CBPD are very quick to answer my questions as far as things are concerned with the RO. But crazy is crazy and you can't do much with that
LOVEMYNEWS wrote on Nov 18, 2009 10:39 PM:
everyone is praying for ashley even people that didnt know here we all hope u pull through
xanderlee wrote on Nov 18, 2009 9:47 PM:
This goes out to Ashleys family and friends...Ashley is my cousin and i am halfway across the u.s. I received a phone call today informing me of what Travis had done to her. Everyone needs to pray for Ashley, he did serious damage to a very special young lady. Carefree Highway you need to leave things alone...you know nothing about what you are talking about, travis was a very violent young man, Ashley's injuries prove that! To my Aunt and Uncle and my cousin, I Love You all and Ashley is in my thoughts, I wish i could be there to help support you all, and thank you to all the people who are praying for her.
Daniel Baumann wrote on Nov 18, 2009 7:25 PM:
Sheriff Jackson/R. Paul Frasier, This is what happens when people who "SHOULD BE" incarcerated are let out. The jail needs to be brought back to full staffing levels.. It is too bad this POS took the easy way out! My prayers go out to Ashley and her family...
Pancho Via wrote on Nov 18, 2009 6:00 PM:
amadeus
(OJIN)Very good point. Thanks for the idea. When my daughters get to the age I will utilize this resource for anyone they are contemplating becoming involved with.
For the women out there, lets turn a negative into a positive & learn from this unfortunate situation.
A piece of paper can not protect you. Law enforcement can not protect you. You have to protect yourself. You can never let your guard down. Arm yourself & shoot first ask questions later.
It is better to ask for forgiveness than to become another statistic.
(OJIN)Very good point. Thanks for the idea. When my daughters get to the age I will utilize this resource for anyone they are contemplating becoming involved with.
For the women out there, lets turn a negative into a positive & learn from this unfortunate situation.
A piece of paper can not protect you. Law enforcement can not protect you. You have to protect yourself. You can never let your guard down. Arm yourself & shoot first ask questions later.
It is better to ask for forgiveness than to become another statistic.
Pancho Via wrote on Nov 18, 2009 5:59 PM:
Check inside your vehicle before getting in it. Survey the scene when approaching. Know who is around you & what they are doing. Always check behind you, under cars when walking from afar. If there is someone suspiscious turn around & call for help. Do not be afraid to let someone see that you are armed. Often times an easy target is what they are looking for, it may make all the difference.
This is exactly why I have been telling my wife to stay out of an abused women's business at work. The abuser can come searching out the meddler just the same. Only you can decide you want out. It is not up to someone else to do it for you.
Lastly, once you leave, do not believe for one second that they will change that they are sorry & go back. You may not get a second chance. Let them prove to someone else that they have changed. Abusers do not change over night if ever.
This is exactly why I have been telling my wife to stay out of an abused women's business at work. The abuser can come searching out the meddler just the same. Only you can decide you want out. It is not up to someone else to do it for you.
Lastly, once you leave, do not believe for one second that they will change that they are sorry & go back. You may not get a second chance. Let them prove to someone else that they have changed. Abusers do not change over night if ever.
TIRED OF THE BULL wrote on Nov 18, 2009 5:48 PM:
THIS IS A TRULY SAD SITUATION FOR ALL THE FAMILY MEMBERS OF BOTH PEOPLE INVOLVED. EVERYONE NEEDS TO REFRAIN FROM PASSING ANY TYPE OF JUDGMENT ON ANYONE. DESPERATE PEOPLE DO DESPERATE AND STUPID THINGS. NO ONE BUT THE TWO PEOPLE INVOLVED IN THAT RELATIONSHIP KNOW ALL THE DETAILS OF THEIR LIFE TOGETHER. STOP POINTING FINGERS AND MAKING YOUR COMMENTS THAT ARE HURTFUL. WE HAVE HAD 1 MURDER, 1 ATTEMPTED MURDER AND A SUICIDE IN A LITTLE OVER A WEEK. YES THIS IS TRAGIC BUT LET THE PEOPLE GRIEVE AND ALSO PRAY FOR ASHLEY TO RECOVER.
carefree highway wrote on Nov 18, 2009 4:56 PM:
All Restraining Orders are issued without a care for whats in the best interest of the family. Zero mediation or contact destroys familys. This is historically spoken by the Abuser and Abused. Courts dont care how each family is uniquely different and what type of treatments/counseling or forbidden contact should be administered. One size fits all, throw away the key, DOESNT WORK!! District Attorney doesnt care except to get his pistol notch conviction.
Just Me wrote on Nov 18, 2009 4:36 PM:
To QWCS: Boy, aren't you up on a high horse! What a horrible thing for you to say at a time like this! You ought to be ashamed of yourself right now! This past week their have been alot of family members that have lost their loved ones to violent crimes, and that is all you have to say? This type of thing can happen any time and any place, evidently you did not read the article, he shot her in Coos Bay, not Coquille or Myrtle Point, so should we join them? May God Bless these families.
carefree highway wrote on Nov 18, 2009 3:30 PM:
Thank you Mark Smith, I appreciate that clarification. This percentage must be nation wide of course because we still dont have that many dead here in Coos County.
Domestic violence has many definitions.
One size Restraining Order doesnt fit all families,but in the cold hearted,Godless courtrooms it does.
Domestic violence has many definitions.
One size Restraining Order doesnt fit all families,but in the cold hearted,Godless courtrooms it does.
m00npenny wrote on Nov 18, 2009 3:23 PM:
"The county jail released Travis four days later on the condition he have no contact with Ashley". What was the original sentence, was it a standard sentence and was he released early due to "no room at the jail"?
If the last two are answered yes, then you, Sherriff Jackson need to fix YOUR jail. Give up YOUR extra paycheck since you are also on retirement pay as well, so that we can have at least 2 more deputies. Perhaps this man would of stayed locked up and alive and a young mother would not be fighting for her life.
If the last two are answered yes, then you, Sherriff Jackson need to fix YOUR jail. Give up YOUR extra paycheck since you are also on retirement pay as well, so that we can have at least 2 more deputies. Perhaps this man would of stayed locked up and alive and a young mother would not be fighting for her life.
momof4 wrote on Nov 18, 2009 3:05 PM:
I am praying that Ashley pulls through. This is such a tragedy. That little baby's whole world was just ripped away from him all because someone made a really stupid decision. It is very sad and I hope he gets to be back in his mommy's arms soon.
coquillian wrote on Nov 18, 2009 2:33 PM:
Mr. Carefree Highway, you are right. They are not worth anything. But, the order does NOT destroy a family unless the family allows it. Again, the POLICE can't FORCE anyone to get a restraining order. No Contact orders are mandatory with violence and are issued without ANYONE asking for one,by the courts. They are two different things. I went through a similar situation back before there were the free restraining orders they give out now. I bought a gun instead, much more effective.
amadeus wrote on Nov 18, 2009 2:23 PM:
someone dropped the ball. if there is a restaining order against you then you cannot possess a firearm. Also, a word to the not so wise. Court records are available. How about, if you, or your daughter or son even, begin dating, you go to the courthouse and check the Oregon Judicial Information Network (OJIN) to see if your new "friend" is a repeat domestic violence offender. See if there are previous restraining orders. This one would have been a flag!!!
Cody's Mom wrote on Nov 18, 2009 1:54 PM:
My heart goes out to all family members who will have their hearts feel as if it has been broken and unrepairable. My family knows both Ashley and Travis, as well as their parents and siblings. There are no words to comfort and no prayer that consoles, only positive hope for Ashley's recovery and the utmost sympathy for Travis's family. Things such as this can only open our eyes to the horror that happens in our own backyard.
Mark Smith wrote on Nov 18, 2009 1:10 PM:
Carefree Highway, I hate to be the one to explain the obvious but going up 79% is much different than being 79% which is what you are thinking.
If the homicide rate is 10% for battered women and it goes up 79% after leaving the situation that would move it to 17.9% total.
The numbers I use are exagerated in that it doesn't start at 10% but this makes it easier to explain.
Hope that helps
If the homicide rate is 10% for battered women and it goes up 79% after leaving the situation that would move it to 17.9% total.
The numbers I use are exagerated in that it doesn't start at 10% but this makes it easier to explain.
Hope that helps
carefree highway wrote on Nov 18, 2009 1:05 PM:
Judy Moody, the executive director of the Women’s Safety & Resource Center, said the homicide rate goes up to nearly 79 percent immediately after abused women leave their homes.
Ok, Judy, where are all the 79% dead bodies stacked up in Coos County?
Ok, Judy, where are all the 79% dead bodies stacked up in Coos County?
mp woman wrote on Nov 18, 2009 12:50 PM:
I knew both Ashley and Travis. My heart goes out to Ashley and her family. Travis should have been locked up a long time ago. I hope Ashley pulls thru this so she can move on with her life. I'm just so shocked that something like this had to happen. God Bless you Ashley and everyone in MP is thinking about you and has you in there prayers.
carefree highway wrote on Nov 18, 2009 12:27 PM:
Restraining Orders are a joke. They either destroy a family or are only as good as the toilet paper they are printed on. Getting the parties together with a professional family court mediator is the only way to determine how to proceed forward. Police spend 75% of their time on these situations. Its a mess of which persecuting long term incaceration isnt always a good answer.
QWCS wrote on Nov 18, 2009 12:24 PM:
The Coquille and Myrtle Point areas should have to form their own county. They're brining us down.
collardbernie66 wrote on Nov 18, 2009 12:24 PM:
The Coquille police and Chief Daniels deserve much praise for all they do for us. My blessings go out to him and especially the families of those involved. This is a tragic case and I hope for full recovery of the mother.
Mr E wrote on Nov 18, 2009 12:14 PM:
This is a sad, sad story. I don't understand what provokes people to do this...
On another note... I have had a strong dislike for Coquille police officers in the past. Most boorish, impolite, threatening police officer I've ever encountered (and he's been terminated since then, for some of his illegal activities) was from that town.
But from all I've heard, Chief Mark is one of the good ones. If nothing else, I'm glad he spotted this man and took action, before he could attempt to hurt anyone else.
On another note... I have had a strong dislike for Coquille police officers in the past. Most boorish, impolite, threatening police officer I've ever encountered (and he's been terminated since then, for some of his illegal activities) was from that town.
But from all I've heard, Chief Mark is one of the good ones. If nothing else, I'm glad he spotted this man and took action, before he could attempt to hurt anyone else.
Forgot wrote on Nov 18, 2009 11:23 AM:
Praying for Ashley to pull through. Such a tragedy for all in those families.
Don't know Ashley or the Coquille Police Chief, but from the sound of things here, I'd say his actions were pretty heroic. We tend to forget that these officers that serve our communtities place their lives on the line for every one of us each day. He knew the man was armed and dangerous. I'd expect no less if it were my daughter or sister who had been shot like that.
Don't know Ashley or the Coquille Police Chief, but from the sound of things here, I'd say his actions were pretty heroic. We tend to forget that these officers that serve our communtities place their lives on the line for every one of us each day. He knew the man was armed and dangerous. I'd expect no less if it were my daughter or sister who had been shot like that.
Mamabug wrote on Nov 18, 2009 10:51 AM:
My thoughts and prayers go to Ashley and her family. And to all others involved. A dangerous person like this should have been behind bars. I know we cant predict the future actions of people but apparently his past should that he was capable of hurting others.
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