Dance will offer clean fun

By Jessica Musicar, Staff Writer
Wednesday, October 21, 2009 | 15 comment(s)

Community leaders hope event shows teens they can have a good time without a buzz

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Steve Scibelli remembers dancing when he was a teenager.

“We used to have dances almost after every football and basketball game,” the North Bend police chief recalled.

They probably kept him and his classmates out of trouble — at least a little bit.

Those days are long gone. Dances are expensive to put on, and wholesome, alcohol- and drug-free activities aren’t easy to find for local teens, the chief lamented.

So Scibelli, along with other Coos County officials in the Local Alcohol & Drug Planning Committee, has decided to get into the dance business.

This Saturday, the committee will throw the first of three drug and alcohol-free dances for all teenagers in grades 9 through 12 to send the message home that you don’t need a buzz to have a good time. The free event runs from 7:30 to 11:30 p.m., at the Coos Bay Eagles Lodge.

“We think it’s important that (teens) don’t drink and use drugs, and we’re willing to put our time and energy into this to give (them) a positive alternative,” Scibelli said.

Last year, officers in Coos County arrested 361 young people for being minors in possession of alcohol, Scibelli said. Plus, a recent survey of the county showed that 42 percent of all teens had consumed alcohol by the 11th grade. So giving kids something else to do with their free time may curb some of those numbers.

“It’s a problem in part because kids today are inundated by alcohol messages (from) movies, music, parents, the community and television. The message is out there that drinking is fun and that drinking is a grown-up thing to do,” said Judge Paula Bechtold, who deals with MIP cases. “The idea is to prove that you absolutely do not need to have alcohol to have a good time.”

She added that according to research, people who start drinking during their formative years are more likely to end up with alcohol problems. It also can damage teens’ developing brains.

“We really would like to have our citizens as smart as possible,” the judge said.

The inaugural dance will be followed by others later this fall and winter, with one likely in Coquille. The chief said he brought up the idea when the committee had some leftover money. It often uses prevention dollars from the State Office of Alcohol and Drug Services to put on youth summits at Southwestern Oregon Community College.

“I said, ‘Why don’t we put on a dance for these kids?’” Scibelli said. “Everything kids want to do costs money. This won’t cost them a cent.”

Those who attend will get to dance to music spun by a live DJ. They’ll get their choice of free snacks and drinks, and get to mingle with high schoolers from throughout the county. Plus, it will be well-chaperoned, Scibelli added. North Bend and Coos Bay police officers will chaperone, along with members of the committee and community volunteers. The chief said he talked to some teens about the kind of music and food they wanted for the event, including chips, pop and finger foods.

“Basically, it’s going to be a good activity for kids to participate in,” Scibelli said, adding that it will not be a Halloween dance.

Gary Francis, a committee member and inspector for the Oregon Liquor Control Commission for Coos and Curry counties, said the event will get teens off the streets for three or four hours.

“Who wouldn’t think that’s good for the community?” Francis said.
Teen dance


What: A drug- and alcohol-free dance for teens in grades nine through 12.


Why: To promote drug- and alcohol-free fun. The event includes free food and drinks, a live DJ from St. John’s Entertainment, and a safe environment.


When: From 7:30 to 11:30 p.m. on Oct. 24.


Where: Upstairs at the Coos Bay Eagles Lodge, 568 S. Second St.


For information: Call North Bend Police Chief Steve Scibelli at 756-3161.
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Just An Observer wrote on Oct 27, 2009 11:01 PM:

The earlier kids get drunk and stoned, the quicker they get over "the stupids" in terms of how they behave. Make them wait until 21 and all we get is a bunch of 20-somethings who cause trouble. Let them get smashed and stoned at 14 or so without having a big legal fuss over this. By the time they are 21, it's not a big deal for those who continue to party hearty. Most kids survive "the stupids" and as it is, the ones who do want to get drunk or stoned are doing so anyways. The legal system just drops a bigger hammer than it did on past generations.


Human behavior is what it is. Growing up isn't easy but it can be fun, sober or intoxicated. How many of us were Perfect Goodie Two Shoes growing up? How much did we suffer from having too much of a good time at times? Even the Amish recognize the need for their kids to get out and see what the outside world's attractions are. Survive your youth and you usually do okay.

WOW! wrote on Oct 22, 2009 3:54 PM:

This all sounds strangley familier.......oh yeah, the movie "Footloose".

dan milburn wrote on Oct 22, 2009 2:48 PM:

Be carefull what you wish for you just might get it! North Bend Police Chief Scibelli is looking for a place for kids to hang out. Get the folks at Maks to toss out their liquor bottles and make a teen dance club out of it. All you folks with so much to say about can get on board as shaperons. You don't have to hire dance bands you can have a teen DJ spinning CDs. Problem solved. Maks will be the place for kids to go! Yes! Ok now Coos Bay Folks get on down to Maks and help them out. Save the economy - save the kids - save the cops with no more drunken brawls, dui's, fights, and complaints!

1313 wrote on Oct 22, 2009 1:28 PM:

When I was young, long ago, we had all kinds of dances here, and also in Coquille at the Community Building. We had so much fun, we didn't need drugs, booze, or even sex. We danced every weekend and we had some big names coming here to perform for us too. We had school dances, Community Building dances in North Bend and Coquille, and the upstairs at the Eagles had dancing every weekend. There was always someplace for under 21 to go dance.
I think once you start dancing you will love it and can have fun dancing instead of getting into trouble. It worked for me and my friends.
It was also a fun way to meet kids from other towns around and make new friends.

oh the drama of it all wrote on Oct 22, 2009 11:41 AM:

When I was in high school my senior year there was a dance club for 21 and under in Coos Bay. This was such an opportunity for people my age that we were there every weekend. It was clean, sober fun if you chose to make it that way! Until parents raised a fit and had it shut down because there will always be those kids who can't do it sober. This is a repeated pattern. I wish this idea well but anything like this that is not held on school grounds is quickly dismissed as you cannot regulate drugs and alcohol in the community like you can at school. Good Luck, Dance on while you can.

clairecat wrote on Oct 22, 2009 9:21 AM:

WOW! I wasn't being negative at all. I promote dancing. It's a blast. As long as there are NO drugs and NO alcohol. These kids need to be checked in at the door to make sure a clean atmosphere is there. I can trust any kid. I can't trust them when they are hammered.

Cbrezident wrote on Oct 21, 2009 10:51 PM:

So youre gonna have a non-alcohol dance upstairs in a bar. Why not hold it at the Armory or Neighborhood facility Building or the NorthBend Community Center.

concerned wrote on Oct 21, 2009 10:03 PM:

You guys are crazy! It is no big deal about how kids dance at a dance. Bump, grind, dirty or not. Not a single dancer has ever gotten prego on the dance floor. The kids who are going to be having sex won't be at the dance any way. It is not how they dance or where they dance that gets kids in trouble these days. It is the lack of parenting and the willingness for everyone to turn their head. I chaperoned a dance and saw a 16 year old girl leave with a 19 year old boy who just pulled into the parking lot to pick her up. I asked the principal about the policy about kids leaving early and he stated that there is no policy and there was no proof the girl was even at the dance.

Rebecca1 wrote on Oct 21, 2009 9:00 PM:

Yes!! With the Lundell's Plaid Potato in Coos Bay, Summer dances in the evenings at Blossom Gulch School, after-game dances at Marshfield High School & North Bend High School, noon dances at Marshfield Junior High School, and then the threat of the Vietnam War & the Draft, I so dutifully got pregnat 3/64, married 6/24/64 & delivered a beautiful baby girl at McAuley Hospital so that big North Bend High School Foot Ball Star would not be classified as draftable when he turned 18. None of this appears to have worked out to be the "right way", she was even a Bangor School drop out, after having been given about most of the advantages, the school system in North Bend did not have to report to the parents in those days even though we lived just across the street on Madrona.

ALFRED E. NEWMAN wrote on Oct 21, 2009 8:54 PM:

My colleagues and I use to have something of this nature. Only we would offer door prizes though out the evening. So that would be a way to keep kids involved and out, hopefully, of trouble. Chaeck with your local programs such as The Boys and Girls Club. If thing go right, and hope they do, you may be able to get other people to get more of these going in different parts of the County at the same time. They could be stagered as well. Kids need something to do that will keep them coming back. God only knows that all the things we did when we were kids have all but gone. Some may have gained a bad wrap, but at least they kept most of us out of trouble.....I think....

dan milburn wrote on Oct 21, 2009 6:34 PM:

Oh my Gosh - you sound like the folks in the 50's and 60's who thought Elvis was a perverted malcontent spreading the Devil's work through Rock and Roll. The folks on Ed Sullivan didn't want the camera to show his leg shakin'. I played in bands growing up here-so did about everybody I know. Whether they admit it or not. We had the Tork Club above the QT. The NorthBend Community Building and wechad sock hops in both Bulldog and Pirate Gyms. The schools made a mint with their concession stands. I say let the kids run the show now don't be surprised if it don't turn out really cool man!

WOW! wrote on Oct 21, 2009 5:46 PM:

If "clairecat" and "everyman" disagree so much with the idea for a dance, then stop critisizing and come up with ideas for kids to do on a Friday or Saturday night. Trust and support are what our kids need not jumping to conclusions. Why not volunteer at the dance and maybe you will meet some kids that can teach you a thing or two about judgement.

clairecat wrote on Oct 21, 2009 3:40 PM:

Everyman: you are so right. I forgot about the way klids dance now. Bump and grind. Man. I was raised in the wrong decade. ( 80's ).LOL

everyman wrote on Oct 21, 2009 3:02 PM:

Hmmm...lets see...my drug of choice in high school was neither alchohol nor drugs...it was sex.

And there was no better place to let those inhibitions drop than on the dance floor, with some PYT.

I love to get down, don't get me wrong...but if your goal is good CLEAN fun, I challenge you to attend one of these dances and then tell me if you can use that word to describe what you see on the dance floor.

Be careful...you may be opening a Pandoras box full of teenage hormones here, guys.

clairecat wrote on Oct 21, 2009 12:44 PM:

I would set up a breathalyzer at the entry and have all the kids get in free if they take the test. When I was in high school half the kids were hammered/stoned.


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