Losing Craig: Mom recalls son, tragedy

By Jessica Musicar, Staff Writer
Thursday, October 30, 2008 | 18 comment(s)

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COOS BAY — For seconds at a time, when her tears dried, it seemed like Craig would rush through the door any minute. A smile on the first-grader’s face after another long day at Blossom Gulch Elementary.

Angie Leone poured through recent photos at a kitchen table, in a home she shares with her mother. She pointed out her 6-year-old “Craigy” on a dune buggy, among plump little pumpkins at a local pumpkin patch, dancing at her sister’s wedding.

The beach

On Saturday afternoon, a freak sneaker wave swiped Craig and his uncle, Roy Tyler, off rocks at Simpson Beach, south of Charleston. Minutes later, the sea spit the boy back out, but he died on his way to Doernbecher Children’s Hospital in Portland. His little heart gave out. Tyler, 39, remains missing.

“He was born early in this world and he was taken away early. I don’t think it’s fair, but it was God’s choice,” Leone said Wednesday.

About two months ago, Leone and Craig moved from Wasilla, Alaska to be with her mother, Doris Jeffries. Together, the 46-year-old and her youngest son, her miracle baby, made memories only she alone can cherish.

Craig was born prematurely when Leone was 40, and she couldn’t hold him for the first two weeks of his life.

 “He was my joy, he was a part of me. He still is.”

On Saturday, Leone, her sister Robin Tyler, 47, Roy Tyler and Craig went to the beach at Shore Acres State Park to play in the tidepools and look for shells. As they headed back toward the trail to go home, two waves struck the family.

After the first, Leone grabbed hold of her son. But a second wave smashed her into a rock.

“I didn’t realize I had let go of Craig until it receded, because I was holding onto him for dear life,” Leone said. “That’s when I said ‘Grab Craig! Grab Craig! He’s right there. He’s right there.’”

Roy Tyler pushed Robin, his wife of less than a month, toward the beach. A woman in black, Jennifer Heacock, helped Leone off the rocks, as the ocean swept away the man and boy.

“By the time I reached Robin I couldn’t see their heads anymore,” Leone said.

Bend residents Bryce Robertson, his girlfriend, Heacock, and her mother, Angie, were out at the beach when they saw the waves strike.

“It was horrifying. It looked like they were sliding down a waterfall,” Robertson said. “The water was just so powerful and moving so fast that it pulled them out.”

Angie Heacock tried to call 911, but with no cell phone reception her daughter had to hike up to the Shore Acres gift shop for help. Meanwhile, she and Robertson watched the shoreline with the family.

What seemed like 10 or 15 minutes later, Leone heard Angie Heacock scream — “Oh my god, there’s the boy! There’s the boy!”

Craig was on the other side of the beach.

He was shirtless and blue in the face. Robertson administered CPR while Leone tried to give him direction. They worked on the boy for 10 minutes as they waited for the U.S. Coast Guard, EMTs, or any other emergency responders to arrive.

“I kept calling out Craigy’s name. I never gave up,” Leone said.

Robertson said he only stopped to direct paramedics to the scene. A Coast Guard helicopter airlifted Craig, who was taken the Bay Area Hospital, while others continued to look for Roy. Bruised and battered, Leone and her sister went to the hospital. Leone, who was hypothermic, pushed away medical help so she could stay with Craig.

“I held his hand the whole time,” Leone said. “I didn’t want to be cared for until my baby was taken care of.”

There wasn’t enough room for Leone to accompany her son on his flight to Portland.

Hospital staff cleaned her bleeding feet and she waited for news with her sister and priest. They eventually went home, but didn’t go inside the house, still decorated for Halloween.

“They brought me the phone while I was sitting with Father Karl,” Leone said. “That’s when the doctor told me that Craigy’s little heart gave out on the way.”

Supporting the family

Leone said the community has been very supportive and a friend of Craig’s brought him a gift that will be cremated with the boy later this week.

“It says: Dear Craig, I want you to have this SpongeBob book so you can read it in heaven,” Leone said. “He made so many friends in the two months we’ve been here. If you met him, you would just fall in love with him. He was like that since the day he was born.”

She showed off drawings from schoolmates and school photos of Craig, as she and her mother Doris Jeffries spoke about the funny things he would say and do every morning before leaving for school.

“(He’d say) See ya later, Cookie Grandma,” Leone said.

Jeffries often replied: “I’d say ‘See you later, sugar puss.”

Leone chose to donate Craig’s organs so other children will have a better chance at life.

“I don’t want somebody else to lose a child,” Leone said. “It’s the hardest thing in the world.”
Helping the family


What: Friends of the Leone and Tyler families have set up a memorial fund in honor of Craig Leone and Roy Tyler, so that out of area family members may attend their funerals.


How: Those who wish to contribute can make donations to the Northwest Credit Union in the names of Angela Leone for Craig Leone and Robin Tyler.
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Debi Betschart wrote on Nov 20, 2008 10:38 AM:

I'm praying for you and your family and friends. I also have lost a child 32 years ago and the pain never leaves, but it does lessen. Just give thanks for the days you did have your son, I never got to bring my baby home and she lived almost 8 months at Children's Orthopedic in Seattle. May God's grace shine on you and ease your broken hearts. I'll continue praying for you.

Wayne Potts wrote on Nov 8, 2008 6:37 PM:

I wish it could of turned out better for you Angie. I was at Shore Acres when this terrible tragedy happened, I helped out the first emergency worker carry equipment down to try and save your son. I helped attach the defibulator and I prayed desperatly for your little boy, that God would return him to you. I was the man that helped you go on the other side of the rock so you would'nt see us working on Craig. So much of the time I wish I could be Jesus and heal, and bring people back to life. I have cried a number of times knowing partially what you went through with your son, cause I almost lost one of my sons. May God bless you in this time and give you the strength and courage to face tomorrow.

Karen wrote on Nov 4, 2008 8:12 PM:

Having lost my son to the ocean, it gives you new sense of respect for that huge unforgiving beauty called the pacific ocean. Nothing I can say will heal the pain you are feeling. Just know your son is walking streets of gold with my son and God. My heart goes out to you and your family. I cry often for Jason but have come to realize they aren't for him as much as they are for me. I miss him terribly but one day I will see him again. Hold your memories close. When you see a rainbow know Craig is smiling down on you.

Seattle Lady wrote on Nov 4, 2008 7:41 AM:

I know the loss you're living through as I am also going through my own loss. I am praying for you and your family at this very difficult time. It is my belief that Craig is in a better place now and you will see him again. Hold that thought in your mind as you ebb and flow.

Kat wrote on Oct 31, 2008 5:52 AM:

Hold tight to your faith, my dears. God will get you through this tragedy. I pray for you the peace that passes all understanding. God's blessings to you and all who loved young Craig. My heart goes out to you at this difficult time.

Heidi Hollister wrote on Oct 30, 2008 10:33 PM:

Thank you for writing this story Jessica. It's so easy to forget that these people are more than just headlines.

Angela, you will see Craigy again. Until then, God will hold you in his arms.

Even so Lord quickly come.

Local lady wrote on Oct 30, 2008 8:53 PM:

May "The Lord Bless you and Keep you; the Lord make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn His face toward you and give you peace." Num 6:24-26

God speaks to us in many ways, altering our lives, our plans and days, and his blessings come in many guises that He alone in love devises.

Quote by Helen Rice

In Love your fellow friend

jhcakeller wrote on Oct 30, 2008 8:04 PM:

I just want the family to know that my family's thoughts and prayers are with them in this difficult time. I am so sorry to hear of such a tragedy.

reedsgirl wrote on Oct 30, 2008 7:26 PM:

my heart goes out to the family , thanks for sharing your stories i know this could not be easy! this made me cry. our thoughts are with you

ononomous wrote on Oct 30, 2008 5:56 PM:

I ache for you. Losing a child must be the worst nightmare a parent could ever have.There is a plan, and for some reason Craigy is part of that plan. May you find the strength you need to live through your loss.

blossom gulch mom wrote on Oct 30, 2008 5:08 PM:

Thank you, it brought me to tears to. I could not imagine loosing one of my boys. I am praying for you and your family

mother wrote on Oct 30, 2008 3:17 PM:

Thank you for sharing your sons story with us - it brought tears to my eyes. God bless you and all those who Craigy touched - what a wonderful boy. You are a wonderful mother.

Coos Bay GAL wrote on Oct 30, 2008 2:51 PM:

I am sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family

Coos Bay Residents wrote on Oct 30, 2008 1:27 PM:

May God bless you and your family during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Quinn Family wrote on Oct 30, 2008 12:35 PM:

I haven't seen Craig since he was a beautiful, happy baby and I was still pregnant with my own son. My heart breaks for you Angie, for your other children, and the rest of your family. God does have a plan and I'll pray he shows the way of his plan.
With hopeful prayers and love
Becky

OCB wrote on Oct 30, 2008 11:46 AM:

I am so very sorry. I am thinking of you and your family.

ExCoosBayGal wrote on Oct 30, 2008 11:30 AM:

So heartbreaking, I grew up in CoosBay and loved but feared the Ocean, what happend to this family is such a nightmare. As a Mom of a young child I cannot imagine the grief of this family. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and the perfect stranger heros that did their best to help.

Local Lady wrote on Oct 30, 2008 10:40 AM:

My god what a tragedy. There is nothing that can be said to make a mother feel better about losing a treasured child. I do not have children yet but could only pray it would not happen for me. But you never know it's going to happen as you go about your day to day life. My prayers are with her family now in their time of grief.


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