Coquille woman touched many lives

By Jolene Guzman, Staff Writer
Thursday, June 19, 2008 | 8 comment(s)

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She had a beautiful smile.

That is what people who knew Crystal Barrett, known to most as Kristi, would say about her. And there was a genuine quality about it which made people feel comfortable around her.

“She always entered the door with a big smile,” her mother, Marilyn Pothier, said.

And that smile made everything OK, Pothier said.

The Coquille woman’s death in a bizarre accident that also seriously injured her 14-year-old son, Tanner, has stunned her friends and relatives and the community in which she spent all of her life. On Saturday, a tree fell on Barrett’s Toyota 4-Runner as she was driving west on state Highway 42 just west of Coquille, crushing the front of the vehicle. An ambulance crew took her to Bay Area Hospital, but she died of her injuries.

The circumstances of the accident are impossible to understand, Pothier said.

“She has driven that road so many times,” she said. “It’s not right.”

She will be missed by many, but perhaps she will be missed most by her son, Tanner.

He still is recovering in Sacred Heart Medical Center in Eugene, where he was transferred after being stabilized at Bay Area Hospital.

“They had a very close relationship,” Pothier said. “They were inseparable.”

Barrett attended all Tanner’s school and sports activities, even requesting time off work to watch her son. Tanner, who will be a freshman next year at Coquille High School, participated in track, football, basketball and played drums.

Doctors were worried about a hematoma, or collection of blood, in Tanner’s brain that could require surgery. That’s why they transferred him to Eugene, Pothier said.

On Wednesday, surgeons noticed the hematoma getting larger and decided to do surgery to repair a skull fracture causing the bleeding and drain off the blood. Pothier said the surgeons offered a bit of good news. The hematoma was not in his brain, but between the membrane and his skull. It won’t cause brain damage. By Wednesday evening, Tanner was recovering in the ICU.

He suffered other injuries when the tree struck the SUV, including a cracked vertebra and fractured eye socket, but his doctors believe those wounds will heal.

Pothier said the family will not hold a memorial service for Barrett until Tanner is able to attend.

“I don’t know what he will do at his mom’s service,” she said. “But he’s got to have that opportunity.”

Many who knew Barrett would also describe her as a devoted mother.

“Tanner was her world,” said Carrie O’Bryan, who worked with Barrett at Woodland Dental Clinic in North Bend.

Barrett was determined to see her son pursue his education, and it showed. Coquille Valley Middle School Principal Mark Nortness said she was one of the most involved parents in the school.

“She tended to take more interest than most in working with teachers to improve Tanner’s grades.”

Middle school students need a little more encouragement and Barrett was always there for her son, he said.

“She certainly held him to a standard she set, which was a pretty high standard,” Nortness said.

She had a similar caring for friends and family, too.

“She knew half the county,” Darin O’Bryan said.

Barrett was O’Bryan’s dental assistant at his clinic. She had worked there for almost a year.

O’Bryan said Barrett had been a dental assistant for years and knew how to make patients feel comfortable.

He said people have canceled appointments because, like him, they don’t feel right about coming in without her there.
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Courtney wrote on Apr 12, 2009 6:43 PM:

ya im only 13 n this story made me cry it really touched me. If u read this n u no Tanner tell him im prayin for him.... even though i didnt no her she touched my life.

Courtney wrote on Apr 12, 2009 6:34 PM:

WOW this is a really touching story. Even though i didnt no her she sounds like the kind of person u can always rely on. If any1 who reads this knows her son Tanner tell him that im prayin for him n his mom.

tears wrote on Jul 3, 2008 8:54 PM:

you got your gold wing's.i will miss you.
but i well allway's rember you smile and are friendship.your the best. she was exceptional woman as well as a mother and friend.we all will miss you but your not far your heart's for ever.

Patricia Crager wrote on Jun 29, 2008 5:37 PM:

Kristi was such an wonderful person. She always had a smile on her face and was so full of life. When my dad called me(I live in Texas) and told me she was gone i was in shock. I still can't beleive it. I have known Kristi since i was in jr high school. I will miss so much about her. Her smile, her laughter, spirit everything. The hardest part for me is not calling her when i come back for a visit or showing up at her job and surprising her. I will miss her dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with Tanner, Marilyn, mark and all of her family. She will be missed. I miss you my dear friend.

Patricia Crager wrote on Jun 28, 2008 4:22 AM:

Kristi was a beautiful and amazing mother, person and friend both inside and out. She could take the worst situation and always carry that smile on her face and turn it around. I remember once when i came to visit her from Texas one summer i found out where she was working and walked in. She was like, "Hi Can i help you?" She realized it was me and she hugged me and we laughed. And i said, "Gotcha!". I have known her for since the 7th grade. I will miss many things her smile, laughter and her friendship. Most of all Kristi. My heart goes out to her family. She is smiling over each and everyone of you.

Portia wrote on Jun 20, 2008 12:23 PM:

Kristi was beautiful; so full of life and happy. I never saw her without a smile on her face. I will never forget the last time I saw her and happy her and Tanner were together;I just never thought that would be the last time I saw her beautiful smile and wave.She had a way of always making people feel happy like she was. Everyone that knows her; knows what Iam talking about.
Tanner your mom loves you so much; you were her everything and she just wants to see you get better; so try to keep your chin up in this horrrible time. I know it will be hard but you have family and friends that are there for you. I will miss you forever Kristi and love you always. We will all try to take care of Tanner in anyway we can.
This shouldn't have been you.

Krystle wrote on Jun 19, 2008 10:46 PM:

Aunt Kristi was just amazing. Even when the worst was in progress, she would lift you up with her huge smile. She gave me some wise advice...often...when I was in High School & I will be forever grateful for that. The thing I will remember most about her is how much fun she can have! Tanner is such a wonderful kid & He will always have his Mom to thank for that. I know he will grow to be an outstanding young man & he knows as well as I do that she will NEVER be forgotten! Debbie & Gram, Hang in there when times are tough & just imagine her smile!

Teresa wrote on Jun 19, 2008 3:38 PM:

Kristy was an exceptional woman, mother and friend. I will miss her beautiful smile at sporting events witht the kids, and chatting with her at the grocery store. I never once saw her down or without a kind word. I'm so sorry for her families loss.


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