As Nemesia Chouinard nails a board to the front of her new house in Coos Bay, Molly Stevens cuts some tar paper to be used on the front porch. About a dozen volunteers helped out at the construction site during National Women Build Week.-World Photos by Lou Sennick
COOS BAY — Nemesia Chouinard has made a career of helping others. But it took prodding from her co-workers and an international ecumenical ministry to get her to help herself.
Chouinard works as a support services specialist at Coos Elderly Services in North Bend. She manages the finances and completes paperwork for clients whose age or infirmities make such tasks difficult.
“She’s extremely compassionate and caring and patient with them,” said Bernarda Liggett, executive director of Coos Elderly Services. “She’s made for the position.”
When she isn’t helping her clients, she is taking care of her three children, who she is raising by herself. She rents a two-bedroom house in Coos Bay that eats up a good portion of her paycheck. The house is old and the heating poor.
It was this challenging living arrangement combined with Chouinard’s dedication at work that prompted Liggett to take Chouinard aside and offer a suggestion.
She told her to apply for a house through Habitat for Humanity.
“I can’t think of a more worthy person,” Liggett said.
At first, Chouinard didn’t share that conviction. She waited. And waited. So on deadline day, Liggett sent her home to get the forms and apply for the home being built on Blanco Avenue in Empire.
“I didn’t think it would be me,” Chouinard gave in explanation for her procrastination.
In all, 128 people applied for the house. Habitat winnowed the field to four, before informing Chouinard she’d been selected May 2.
“It’s all just surreal. I can’t believe it,” she said. “I drove by a couple times and it’s ‘No way!’”
It was only fitting that her first day on the job site was last Wednesday, during Habitat for Humanity’s National Women Build Week.
As part of the event, crew comprised entirely of women was putting in flooring on the cold, blustery morning.
Among the crew was Chouinard, Liggett, several Habitat board members, a couple Realtors who helped rebuild homes in Mississippi following Hurricane Katrina and Habitat veteran Betty Bassett.
Chouinard’s is the fourth Habitat house Bassett has helped build. Most of the time she is the only woman on the crew. So it was quite a change to be hammering nails and painting walls with women beside her.
“The thing is (the men) know what they are doing,” she said. “Today I’m doing more organizing and directing. It’s quite a change.”
The women’s construction experience ranged from some to none at all.
Susan Karolyi joined the local Habitat board four or five months ago but she was participating at a construction site for the first time. She nursed a bruised finger from an errant hammer swing, but said she still was having a good time. She credited her hard-work attitude to the oversight of Larry Haun, a longtime Habitat construction leader, who offered guidance and moral support.
“He’s been very patient,” she said.
Lisa Higbee and Molly Stevens had some experience, having traveled to Biloxi, Miss., in February to help rebuild homes there as part of a collaborative effort between Habitat and the National Association of Realtors. For 10 days, they worked from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.
“It gave us confidence” said Stevens.
The collection of women worked together last week for only one day, but it was significant for them as well as for the local organization.
Habitat for Humanity has organized women builds for more than 10 years, but this was the first such venture in Coos Bay.
“We’ve never even considered doing it,” said Sheila Ward, the local Habitat affiliate’s executive director. “We have a lot of women who have expressed interest in this.”
There also was a financial benefit to hosting a one-day event, as the affiliate will receive $5,000 from Lowe’s Home Improvement.
Such a donation is significant, Ward said, noting it costs between $45,000 and $50,000 to build a Habitat home. This figure includes some skilled labor, such as electrical and foundation work, though a good portion of the project is done by volunteers.
Chouinard, like all recipients of a Habitat house, must pay for the home, but with a zero-interest mortgage. She also must provide 500 hours of “sweat equity” on the house by assisting with the build, though friends and family may provide assistance as well. In an effort to help Chouinard reach that number, several of her co-workers joined the women’s crew Wednesday.
“We shut down the office!” said Liggett.
The wind was blowing fiercely in the faces of the various women — friends and strangers. If all goes well, the house might be finished by the end of summer, though almost certainly by the start of 2009.
“It’s nice to have support from people I’ve never seen in my life,” said Chouinard, her green eyes gazing out on the foundation that soon will support her family’s first home.
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CONGRATS NEMESIA ON YOU WELL DESERVED HOUSE!!! AND IN RESPONSE TO THE CONCERNED CITIZEN... IF YOU ARE SO CLOSE TO HER, THEN WHY IS IT THAT YOU DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO SPELL HER NAME? IT SEEMS TO ME THAT YOU HAVE TOO MUCH TIME ON YOUR HANDS AND MAYBE YOU SHOULD WORRY ABOUT WHICH ONE OF YOUR BOYFRIENDS IS GOING TO PAY YOUR SEC 8 RENT THIS MONTH OK! DONT BE MAD JUST CUZ SHE IS GETTING SOMETHING THAT, AGAIN, IS VERY MUCH DESERVED! HAVE A GOOD DAY!
To Whom wrote this last comment, The funny thing is the person who wrote this says their a close family friend, well first of all the dont even know how to spell my name! THE fact that this person cant be happy for me and my family to start a new life is very sad! Those who REALLY know me know that i deserve it and know how hard i work to get where i am. I know that people can be very envies and wish the had the same chance so i cant be mad at them for their opinion. I can just hope that this person finds something better to do with their time then bash me on the internet! I appriciate all those that have supported me and helped us out! Those who have nothing to do then talk trash on the internet i recommend you find a hobby!
Are ya jealous or Mad its not you wrote on May 31, 2008 4:01 AM:
YOU always find out who your friends are when you get a house built for you.. and you also find out who wishes it was them who deserves a house and who dont.. If you think you know someone more deserving, maybe like yourself..apply for the next one to be built and then you can be her neighbor , then you can watch each others habits..you CLAIM to be a close FAMILY FRIEND ..Close FAMILY FRIENDS Dont talk about them like you do. You apply see if YOU DESERVE it or if you even get approved..Maybe they will put you on a different lot.. And you can BAD MOUTH SOMEONE ELSE..
Citizen of Coos County. wrote on May 29, 2008 5:25 PM:
Hi am a proud citizen of Coos County and came across this article as a bit of a surprise. I am a close family friend to the chouinards and know that there is a family more deserving in this county that needed a home more than she does. I have very close contact to her and her children and if anyone raises them its the parents of the father with whom they are with almost 90% of time while she is out enjoying the nightlife and being an intrusion to alot more people than just her children. Again all i can say is congratultions namesia, but you and i both know that its not a desrved one.
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